How to spot a player in the dating game
Not everyone can be glued to their phone but with a player you’ll quickly notice that communicating throughout the day is hit or miss.
One day you’ll be texting back and forth for hours and the next day you don’t hear a peep from him. Some guys are just naturally sweet but until there’s some sort of emotional connection, most guys aren’t calling you pet-names or ringing your phone to say goodnight.
When a player sees an attractive girl it’s likely he’ll lose complete focus on you and will have no type of cool about himself.
Eyes will wander, but when wandering becomes consistent staring, there’s a problem.
Others lie when they don’t want to be discovered because they’re planning something sketchy.It’s easy to play with these factors because you can’t exactly force people to reveal themselves when they say they’re not ready. They can’t resolve themselves to the fact that they need to open up to people, so they come up with an online persona that reveals only the most non-incriminating details. It’s is especially hard for them when they see the competition, so they exaggerate their good points to draw more people towards them. They can be gold diggers, scammers, perverts, or even criminals. If that doesn’t help, you better take everything that person says with a grain of salt, or you could end up being Catfished or robbed of all your money. [Read: How to catch a Catfish – online fakers revealed] Liar alert: the ones who lie about their looks Some people lie about their appearance because they feel that their flaws can overshadow who they really are.They can be insecure and really guarded because of this.We’ve all been there when a guy has a whiff of doggy dog about him and screams Bad Boy, yet it’s clear that not only can some women not read the signs but they don’t do anything with the knowledge. Men are quite egotistical but men who have Those Who Doth Protest Too Much Syndrome that keep telling you how ‘nice’;’different to their friends’ they are, scream player. He disappears for periods of time with little or no explanation. It’s one thing if his routine includes a lot of you, but if the routine is his way of explaining why he can’t see as much of you even when you have been together a long time, this man does not want to let go of his ‘freedom’. This is often a trait of men that are also habitually routine with their time. This guy is juggling women or just treating you like a booty call.Here are 21 tips to keep you out of a player’s path or to get you to wise up to the one in your life. Men who elevate themselves onto a perch where they can look down at other guys and say how great they are, have mastered the art of being a player. I once had an ex tell me he was going out for an hour and he returned thirteen hours later the following day. Ask this guy to come around earlier and see how he struggles. If you are a booty call, fine but if he’s your boyfriend, I would let the alarm bells ring. He flirts with other women but tells you that he’s just being nice and friendly. Also keep an eye on someone who consistently flirts with waitresses and shop assistants. If you catch him out on a lie about something small, feel nervous about the big things that he may be lying about. He mentions sexual stuff even though you barely know him.